Love Actually is a story of many stories - similar to the businesses we operate in. You will find bosses and leaders, followers and instigators and the usual cast of mixed influencing characters.
What is interesting to me about this movie (and we watch it at least a dozen times) is that there are so many leadership lessons coming from the oddest of individuals - leadership where you wouldn't expect it.
- the Englishman who decides to change his fortune and move to the US
- the gilted lover who pours himself into work and discovers a new entity
- the tenously-grounded wife who is on the precipice of loss and finds a way to hold on
- the family destroyed by tragedy but comes to learn more about each other
Answer: the NOT TO DO Leader does not take the time to look around and see the lessons, or learn from anyone else.
Look around your workplace and see the shapes and sizes. See how each leader and team member inter-connects and intersects with each other. Once you step back and look, you may see how the decisions and choices you make impact the rest of the flow in your workplace.
Learn to be open to the intersection and from where leadership lessons can evolve.